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What’s the Difference Between a Registrar and a Celebrant?

What actually is the difference between the two roles?

Which one do you need at your wedding?

Can you have a ceremony led by both?

Luckily, it’s quite an easy topic to clear up. In this article, I’ll explain the difference between registrars and celebrants and give you all the information you need to decide how they could both be involved in your marriage proceedings.

Couple getting legally married

What is a Registrar?

A registrar is a professional responsible for collecting and recording details of all births, deaths, marriages and civil partnerships. They are employed by a local authority and conduct civil wedding ceremonies, which are non-religious and legal unions between two people.

Registrars have other civil responsibilities, but in the context of ceremonies, they are the people in charge of conducting, witnessing and recording a legally binding marriage ceremony. These legal requirements mean that their role in the ceremony is quite restricted, as are the elements that can be included.

What is a Celebrant?

Outdoor wedding

The Key Differences Between a Registrar and Celebrant

But there also also plenty of other differences that it’s good to understand before you make a decision between the two.

Here’s what you need to know.

A Registrar…

  • Legally marries you
  • Is employed by your local authority
  • Follows a strict, pre-determined ceremony script
  • Has a few options to allow for personalisation
  • May perform several different ceremonies in one day
  • Is limited to a 20-minute time slot on specific days within office hours
  • Typically meets you for the first time on the day of the ceremony
  • Cannot include any spiritual or religious references or music

A Celebrant…

  • Cannot legally marry you
  • Works independently and is typically self employed
  • Writes a brand new ceremony script for every client they work with
  • Completely tailors your script to suit your preferences
  • Can conduct your ceremony anywhere (within reason!)
  • Will only perform one ceremony in a day
  • Offers flexible ceremony lengths and can perform a ceremony at any time
  • Arranges several meetings with you before the ceremony to get to know you better
Walking down the aisle

Legal Considerations

For legal marriage ceremonies, you also need to give notice of your marriage at the venue no less than 28 days before the date of your proposed marriage. You have twelve months from the date you give notice to arrange a date for your ceremony.

You also need to have at least two witnesses present at your ceremony, who will sign the marriage certificate afterwards.

As I’ve already highlighted, the legal nature of a registrar-led ceremony means that you cannot include any music or readings with religious connotations. You do have the option to exchange rings, but other rituals might not be allowed.

Queer couple with wedding certificate

Do You Need a Registrar and a Celebrant?

If you and your partner want to get legally married, you will have to do this with a registrar at some point. But there’s no reason why this procedure needs to be thought of as your ‘wedding’.

What many couples are choosing to do now is have a small legal marriage ceremony and then throw a wedding celebration led by a celebrant on another day. This means that you have the official stuff all sorted and can celebrate this occasion with family and close friends, and then get to enjoy another celebration with much more freedom and flexibility.

So in answer to the question above, no, you do not need a registrar and a celebrant at your wedding. I suggest that, if you want to get legally married, you organise this ceremony on a different day to your wedding celebration, and get to enjoy two different events with your partner.

Signing a marriage certificate

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Get in touch to arrange a chat where I can find out more about what you’re looking for from a celebrant.

If it feels like the right fit, we’ll make a start on planning your perfect ceremony!

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